I find it rather fascinating the way people think when someone has gone incognito, they are not doing anything with their life.
What everyone has to realise is that sometimes in life people need to remain incognito in order to stay focused and accomplish whatever it is they are aiming to accomplish.
Not all great works are accomplished with the eyes of the world on watch. That just adds to the pressure, not to mention the critics rise like crazy, as everybody ends up treating your project like it’s their own and expecting you to follow their advice. As much as they might mean well, it only ends up confusing the poor individual.
So really in life you have to allow your friends and family to get wrapped up in a cocoon every once in a while, just like the pupa before it becomes a beautiful butterfly. One minute it’s crawling around as a caterpillar, next it is no where to be seen, and the next time you see it; it is a fully grown beautiful butterfly. Just like our life cycle, it carries on like that, so that every time you are seen again, you are looking and feeling better than ever. Just let all your family and friends know, that just because you are not seen or heard, it does not mean you no longer have them close to your heart. After all we all need some alone time from time to time.
